Starting my vlog again! Enjoy!by
Writer’s note: I had worked two years at an adult store on Staten Island as an intimacy specialist (sales), and as an educator. I’m going to use this as a base line as I go through my list of dos and don’ts for a “sex shop”
The good people at Maxiwand asked my opinion on what I believe are the components that make up a good sex shop, so here’s a brief list:
- It shouldn’t be called a ‘sex’ shop or have XXX emblazoned on the front of the building. Adult stores should be a place that’s not depicted as seedy and dirty, which are unfortunately now synonymous with those names.
- It shouldn’t be connected to another type of business. Customers in an adult store should feel comfortable in the knowledge that all the other customers in the store are in there looking for the same things, and not for rolling papers, bait, or ammunition.
- Sales people should be knowledgeable and approachable. If the store is not theme-oriented, then the workers there should be in comfortable (in some cases I’ve seen business casual) clothes, and should have ‘hands-on’ knowledge of many of the products and practical knowledge of everything else.
- Stores should host educational programs. You’d be surprised how many people have completely wrong information about sex and sex toys. Having a comfortable and safe location to learn is always a plus, and now the students have a familiar place to shop!
- Variety is a necessity. As much as we’d like for every customer to buy the top-of-the-line silicone toy, sometimes they just don’t have the funds to do so. The purchase of a jelly toy is not the be-all, end-all, as long as the customer is informed of the downsides of jelly toys (and why they should save up and treat themselves one day to a high-end toy). So a good shop should have toys of all different varieties and price points.
- Following the variety theme, there should be different products offered: gag gifts, candies, books, videos, lingerie, candles, oils, lube (of course), wigs, shoes, “branded” toys (like the 50 shades crap), bdsm gear, apparatuses, pasties, games, the annoying bachelorette party stuff… you never know what customers are looking for – sometimes the customers don’t even know themselves – and a good store will be prepared to help in any scenario.
- There is no need for a store to be open until crazy hours of the night (this is more for the employee side of things). There is no purchase at 2am that couldn’t be made the next day. Even the shops in the city that never sleeps (not the ‘burbs, the actual city) close around 10pm.
- Stores should be welcoming to all genders/sexual orientations, and should have a staff that represents such. This is more of a situation for at-home party companies than brick-and-mortar ones, but still…
- These are pretty straight forward: the place should be well-lit, clean, organized, have a well-lit and maintained store front/parking lot, and shouldn’t have any “curatined-off” areas. Those areas up the sleaze quota by quite a few points.
- One last thing: there should be clean, well-maintained customer bathrooms. It may be some extra work/cost, but it’s rather disappointing for a customer to go to some place that’s a distance, and be told that the closest bathroom is in the Starbuck’s across the way (true story).
I haven’t traveled far to experience first hand the best shops around the USA, but by doing research and visiting local stores, I can recommend the following places:by
(Yes, I did go there with the semantics)
There are a pile of things on my naughty desk waiting to be talked about, so I just want to give you a little preview of what’s to cum…
FunToys sent me their new Black Jack, which so far may give my favorite toy – their G Vibe – a run for her money…
MaxiWand contacted me about running an article pertaining to adult stores. They’ve done their research in other countries and would like my input on what are the things to look for in a good shop. I’ve been doing my research on that one…
I have a handful of books lined up to review; some kinky, some not.
Yes, I still have the collection of pornos to review. Do you know how tough it is to EVER complete just one of those assignments?
I am doing research on a Master/slave scenario that I hope to have more information on soon.
And then, of course, there is the biggie: RKO Con ’16!
Packed with movies, shows, poker, donuts and tequila (the breakfast of champions), naughty bingo and a slew of panels, this has the potential to be an incredible event. The cast of RKO Army hosted the first RKOCon three years ago (you can see my review here: http://www.nthzine.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/Issue-23.pdf), which makes me very eager to experience this one!
This is the schedule for the weekend. I’ll be up there on Thursday… and may get some sleep when I come home Sunday afternoon.
And then the reviews will begin!by
I started blogging on line on Live Journal (remember that site?) and then started doing a review blog in 2012 called Wench with Wrench.
They were mostly reviews of movies/TV shows and other geek stuff. It wasn’t towards the end that I started reviewing more adult things.
Feel free to browse through the posts as I prepare my new reviews for this season and get my naughty back in gear!by
(For those of you wondering why this review is on my blog, go here.)
Once upon a time, smoking was sexy. Seeing stars like James Dean, Audrey Hepburn, Bette Davis, and Clark Gable talking around a cigarette between their lips or punctuating their words with a cloud of smoke was exotic and sensual.
But then there’s the whole downside to smoking, which I really don’t need to go into.
Now there’s vaping.
I’m going to try to explain this without sounding like a sales pitch. Vaping is basically taking liquid nicotine (mine actually has no nicotine in it, so it’s propylene glycol and vegetable glycerine), soaking cotton with it, and turning on coils in the vape to turn the liquid into vapor. That’s what you then inhale.
Many people use it to stop smoking, since the liquid nicotine is set up as a step-down system. They start with a higher level of nicotine – 24g, for example – and then work their way down to eventually 0g.
I use it because I like the flavors. It keeps the munchies at bay, to inhale chocolate chip mint flavored vapor without all the calories of ice cream (mmmmmm, ice cream…)
So, one of my review focuses will be nicotine flavors. It’s amazing how many different companies are now out there.
I’m going to be testing out vape flavors on my Hammer mechanical mod.
I don’t have much to say about the mod. I liked the shape and heft of it, I saw it on line, I bought it. The build (the set up of the wires in the chamber) was done by Stephen Pappalardo, manager of General Vape (2001 Victory Boulevard, Staten Island). It’s been a while since I had it done, so I should go back and pretty please him into doing it again for me…
So keep an eye out for my first flavor review…by
Don’t worry! The changes aren’t limiting the wonder that is my blog!
In fact, the changes will expand my Naughty Thoughts at least 3-fold.
I decided that I’m not just going to review toys+ here.
Believe it or not, using toys+ for blogging-sake tends to take some of the fun out of the… well, fun.
But, that doesn’t mean that I’m going to stop reviewing completely!
I’m going to expand what I review!
Whatever else strikes my fancy!
As well as toys+!
I have two books lined up – one already ready for review – as well as a library full of books and a bunch of e-books, over 20 vape flavors from various companies (vapes in my world have surpassed the sexy of the cigarette), hundreds of recipes, some movies (probably older ones rather than new) and, of course, lots of toys and lube and adult movies and gear and lingerie.
Yes, this is still KT Pinto’s Naughty Thoughts. Trust me, naughty thoughts still go on in this wicked head of mine, and I never said the things I would review would be completely vanilla. More like chocolate chip mint, possibly rocky road…
My rating system isn’t going to change, in case you were worried.
And I give this idea of changing the focus of the blog aby
Changes, they are a-coming!
Actually, they are here!
I no longer work at the adult store. I had to suck it up and be a grown up and get a gig with benefits. So I had to leave Neverland for something more *cringe* vanilla.
But, not to fear! Not only do I still have my professional connections with Tantus, Pipedream, Baci, and others, but the owners of the megastore and I have been talking about them sponsoring me and my blog, which includes keeping my discount and receiving free toys+ to review.
I’ll keep you posted about that!
More reviews to come!by
Every once in a while, we at the store are given a challenge: sell the most X, win a prize from the company.
Last month, the X was items from the System JO line of products.
And I won first prize:
I haven’t opened it yet – I’m waiting for the boy to come over this weekend so we can do it together – but there was a note in the bag that let me know what was inside (click on the picture to see it clearer).by
On Wednesday, January 7th, 2015 I will be running a free workshop at Nitecap Megastore called “Welcome to the Dungeon”.
I will be going over the basics of fetish-play and the world of BDSM, as well as some of the basic dos and don’ts of the fetish community.
There will be dungeon tools and accessories, there will be gift bags (for the first 10 students), there will be Q&A, there will be pictures (of me, at least, and anyone who would like to be in them!), there will be demonstrations and there will be lots of fun.
The workshop starts at 9pm at Nitecap Megastore, 690 Gulf Ave. Staten Island, NY 10312. Just come in and say you’re there for the workshop. You must be over 18, so make sure you have your ID!by
Guess what? A company was brave enough to step forward and affiliate themselves with me and my blog… way sooner than I ever expected!
And I am happy to announce that Tantus Inc. has decided to become a part of the KT Pinto experience!
What does this mean? This means that Tantus now graces my page as an affiliate, with a happy little link that you can easily click on to buy some great things. By using this link, I get credit for pointing you in their direction.
How does this affect my reviews of their products? It doesn’t. As I have said before, I am a brutal reviewer, and when it comes to a company whose product I like, I am even harsher because I expect more from them.
So if I come across a product of Tantus’ (or any future affiliates’) and it’s not up to par, I will say so… a lot.
This was simply a public service message to let you know that my integrity doesn’t change because there’s an ad on my sidebar. But I do encourage other companies to test that theory by becoming affiliates as well…by